Even the best relationships can use a few new tricks to keep things exciting when the clothes come off. Sure, you’ve probably got your signature moves and a couple of favorite tips for generating bedroom sparks, but who would say no to new smokin’ hot ideas? Of course, no one can guarantee that trying one of these things tonight will blow your mind or hers, but really, how could it not?
Get Matching Underwear
Imagine getting dressed in the morning. You’ve got your insanely comfortable ball hammock boxers on, and thanks to the couples underwear sets that you recently bought, she’s slipping into a matching thong. That is hot, no question about it. It’s even hotter to realize that all day long this sexy secret will keep you from focusing on work. Go ahead and keep your mind in the gutter. By the time the matching underwear is reunited, you’ll practically be bursting out of yours. No doubt she’s also enjoyed her all-day reminder of the evening to come and is just as ready as you are.
Level Up Your Texting Game
Even if there’s a day you don’t have your matching underwear to keep your thoughts sexy, you can get things going in other ways. Maybe it’s laundry day and your favorite matching skivvies are unavailable. Let her know you’re thinking about her — no, fantasizing about her — throughout the day with a few well-timed racy text messages. Using your favorite private phrases to stoke the fire while you’re apart is nothing less than a stroke of genius. Don’t be afraid to have fun, either. Approaching sex with a sense of humor is a great way to help you both relax and fully enjoy yourselves.
Put it on the Calendar
Schedule a private meeting, and be sure to put it on the calendar. An unexpected email invitation to a sexy rendezvous is a great way to get her mind on you instead of on boring work meetings. You’ll both have the rest of the day to entertain yourselves with thoughts of the evening ahead. Put together a very adult agenda so she knows exactly what your time together will entail. You can’t help but stay turned on when you think of all the ways that your one-on-one meeting will soon become one-under-one, one-beside-one, one-undressing-one, well, you get the idea.
Embrace the Taboo
If you’re looking to add fireworks to your sex life, bring a bit of the illicit to your naked time. You could arrange to have a steamy affair — with your partner, of course. Meet up where no one will know you. Have a drink together, then head to a hotel where you know that the doorman will be discreet. You’ll be rocking each other’s worlds before you know it. Then you’ll just have to work together to come up with a good story to explain how the hotel sheets ended up a bit charred around the edges.
You can also introduce some fun accessories into your evening. Heighten some of her senses by removing others — with a blindfold, for example, or restraints so that she can’t reach out and touch you. Remember, too, that turnabout is fair play, not to mention sexy as anything. You can also head in the opposite direction and find a large mirror to set the scene. The two of you can be the stars of, and only audience members for, your own x-rated film.
When you’re in a great relationship, don’t let the most exciting part of your time together get boring. Get the matching underwear and keep exploring new ways to set off bedroom fireworks.